a word FAILURE

 

Everyone don’t like the word failure. We don’t even like when things don’t go as planned. We see pictures, posts, stories of people in our social media of their success and we thought that when we will get this type of success, happiness and complete our dreams but we forget that not all are same. People are not carbon copies of each other. They don’t have same skills, achievements, outputs, problems and issues. Not everyone put equal amount of efforts or deal with the challenges and situations. Where I am having hard times, I expect people to treat me in accordance with that too and I want to do the same for other. But when this not happen it makes us feel low and we thought of all negative things of ourselves and about people too.

Failure doesn’t mean you should not try again after this or you are not worth it of doing anything. Failure in life gives strength. Strength of doing that work again and again until it will complete. It will make you stronger but only if you take your failure in a positive way. The failure makes you to do more hard work. It teaches you to deal with the worse condition in life. Everyone failure story is different. Some people fail in getting their dream job, dream house some getting their favorite things. It changes your mindset your thinking towards your work towards people. But I think failure risk is important in life. It is good for success in your life. Through failure you get to know yourself better and you will learn your mistakes. It makes us to rethink, reconsider and find new ways and strategies to achieve your goals.

     

   

 

But how to conquer your failure and what should we do so that failure will not come between our dreams and goals. I read 2-3 articles and tried it on myself that if we feel failure in our life what should we do and I will share it to you 4-5 points which are very effective in life to overcome from the thought of failure.

First is studying the lives of great people and make them your source of inspiration. Second is always remind yourself of your past successes. How you made mistakes before and you have survived them. Third is try to forget the past and focus on the future. Past is past you can’t change it So stop worrying about it and think about your future. Fourth focus and list all your personal strengths and achievements. Fifth and the last is share your story. Don’t be shy of your failure, be open, transparent and bold in the way that you offer your insight to the world.

These small things and steps will definitely  help you to overcome this failure and emptiness in your life. Failure is a part of everyone’s life. People can only succeed through failure. Leave this feeling forget about past try to learn new skills, new opportunity. Step out from the  negative people from your life. Believe in yourself and your heart and soul.